Art of Seduction
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Perhaps you wouldn’t mind flirting with a girl in a most memorable way, one that would leave her longing that it lasted longer; but by unearthing the secrets of how to flirt with a cute girl, you could achieve this even today!
Flirting with a cute girl is easiest when you’re not pretending
Some guys don’t quite understand what qualifies as pretense… OK, so you were advised to act and talk in such a way, and you go ahead and do it—with much difficulty for that is not who you are.
It doesn’t matter if it’s a tried, tested and proven method, if it calls for you to not be yourself, then it doesn’t matter if you’re only pretending when flirting with cute women, it’s still not you!
Conversing is the easiest form of flirting
Distinguishing the borderline between sexual physical gestures, and sexual assault has become undefinable these days…and you don’t want to take that risk either!
So which is the safer way to do it? Through conversation. A simple conversation could very easily go from an exchange of pleasantries to an intense, heated up talk that’s more of a flirtatious exchange.
Don’t be too pushy when flirting with women
Rest assured, women are the best flirts out there, and you can’t beat them at their game, so don’t even bother trying! Thus you can imagine how awkward you’ll look when you seem to be teaching the teacher how to flirt…your score will be an “E” for effort.
There is a fundamental open secret that you can uncover in learning how to get a girl to like you a lot. Imagine yourself running a cafe and one day a customer complained about the food, then asked you to taste the food and you vehemently refused? Would you ever sell another meal to that customer and any other that witnessed this?…
A girl will like you a lot for your independence
You’ve heard the rhetoric about “the momma’s boy that lives wit momma”…there’s nothing wrong in loving your mother, so don’t misconstrue that girls don’t want you to love your momma.
But for love of air will you get a life! Yes, get a life and you will get a girl to like you!
Seriously, where will you two go to snuggle and cuddle for a night indoors…at your momma’s? At your age? Absolutely not, you can do better than that, and so can she. It’s no wonder she scooted over to the next one, a better one…
If she can’t be your friend how can you get her to like you a lot?
Friendship is the basis of so many good relationships out there, the best of couples are not only lovers but friends too.
In the same light, the best way to start a relationship is through friendship, because then you give your interactions a connection that will enhance the quality of your relationship as “more than friends”.
Show her that you’re a “MAN”
Don’t get your imagination running wild on this one, it’s not what you think…really!
To get a girl to like you, you need to show her that you’re a “MAN” so that she won’t just like you as her “friend” but in a sexual way as a “man”.
Easy ways to achieve this is by having your romanticism in check, flirt with her once in a while to show her that you’re attracted to her, it will really work wonders!
You’ve been trying to unearth how to tell a girl you like her a lot, since all your kind gestures don’t seem to be hitting home with her, and it’s also getting a little too old, for your not quite sailing in sure waters…
Does she feel the same way about you, how will she take it? Will it ruin the friendship you’ve been growingly establishing?
Regardless of the outcome you will feel better in telling her
Perhaps the greatest impediment that’s holding you aback is the fear that she may reject you when you finally come out clean and tell the girl that you like her.
Contrary to that notion though, even if she were to slap back the revelation in your face and probably cut all her ties from you, you would still feel better—so much better—for letting out what you’ve been holding in your chest.
What’s the worst that could happen?…Not much, so just brave up and tell her!
Be prepared…even for anything!
You definitely want it to be a great and fulfilling experience, so prepare yourself in all ways possible, from your appearance, to your mentality and everything in between.
Being prepared is also key in boosting your confidence, that self-assurance that keeps you from jumbling your words or beating about the bush.
Also don’t be too timid to take in her reaction, it could go either way but the manner in which you handle it could very well make her see in you what you see in her.
If there’s anything that has given men worldwide a real sweat, it would probably be the question of how to impress a girl effectively. You can owe the confusion and misconception to the faux pas “answers” out there. Buckle up for behold is your reality check.
Use your strengths and weaknesses too to impress a girl effectively
There’s nothing that a woman would appreciate more in a man than loyalty and honesty, what they call being “real” in the streets.
Take for instance you’re a very generous guy, but also a very possessive one. While women openly admit that they don’t like men who are too possessive, they secretly admit that they like seeing you shielding her, protecting her so ardently from the prowling wolves.
Don’t force your compatibility with her
You don’t have to suddenly develop an interest for oriental music when you’re strictly a hip-hop guy—just because she’s an oriental music enthusiast.
Remember, you can never bend your compatibility…else how would you explain the numerous couples that any astrologer would vow to be “incompatible”, yet the two have been together and getting stronger for decades on?
Besides, as Physics has it, “like poles repel, opposite poles attract”…
It could be that your core differences are your core attractions, and the fact that you openly admit your differences may just leave the greatest impression on her.
So go ahead and be REAL!
Perhaps for all lonely bachelors (“eligible” or not—whatever that is!) were to be wiped out instantly, it would probably necessitate that they learn how to make a girl like you a lot. Unfortunately, only a handful of men are aware of this, compared to the millions of others that aren’t.
To make a girl like you a lot, DON’t forget the big dates!
Trust that if you do forget her birthday you’ll earn yourself an eternal grudge that will haunt you thereafter. Furthermore, it’s not just about remembering the calendar dates, but also remembering the finer details.
If you’re not this kind of guy, then a good place to especially start would be taking note of the things she either seems or speaks so passionately about, the things she likes, and anything she seems attached to.
Don’t be afraid to subtly elicit your soft spot for her
She’s probably your friend, but while that may be an added advantage, it may also be your undoing if you seem fixated on your friendship. You’ll want to show her that you would wish to push things further than just sticking to the realm of friendship.
You’re a man—there’s no doubt about it, however, it would take you leaps ahead if you softened your bad boy act a little. This could be a heartfelt compliment every now and then, or simply minimizing how much you flirt with other women.
She needs to feel how highly esteemed she is in your life, like she—more than anybody else—means a lot to you and the best way to show this is not with words but in action.
Even the worst of public speakers, or the shyest of men can master how to ask a girl out on a date, do it without fail and have the date of a lifetime. But first things first, and before you can have an awesome date, you’ll need to do some homework and grasp one or two concepts to guarantee your spot on that table for two…
What are your fears or shortcomings?
Plan ahead and do it like a chess player even if you don’t know your tail’s end in a game of chess.
How you ask? Strategy, forethought and “plan B”. In other words, you can’t rely on a single-handed approach that you’ve crammed and sealed in an envelope. What are the chances that things will go exactly as you planned? Very slim indeed!
So instead ask don’t be too rigid, but pretty much prepared for anything, for anything can happen when you ask a girl out on a date…you should know!
Give her a reason not to say “No” to your offer
If the last or first time she saw you she either wished she hadn’t, or hoped she never would again, then a big “NO” is most likely in the offing for you.
Remember that tip about strategy…yes, you probably felt that hunch the first time you saw her, that you wanted to date her, but you obviously couldn’t bring it up at that time.
But did you give her a reason to wish you had asked her out? Did you give her a reason not to want to say “No” if you did? Did you give her a reason to wish she had the guts to ask you out if she had the guts? Guilty as charged…
They say that each girl has her own idea of the ideal man; but did you know that there is a unifying answer to what girls look for in a man? If you’re wondering how this could possibly be true, then you have two choices, the easy one (which is to read on), or the harder one, which is to ask around from all the women you can and try and assess what unifies their requirements…
What are the unifying requirements of what girls look for in a man?
When one woman says that she looks for a man with financial stability and another a man that will fulfill her needs, they’re both actually saying pretty much the same thing…
And what is it? That they’re looking for a man that will protect and take good care of them, a man that will provide for her needs.
The same applies when a with these two women as it does to the woman that is looking for a tall or built man. Tall or pumped-up men instill a confirmation of security and protection, and once again, pretty much the same thing as the former two requirements.
Do women really care about looks?
The real answer is both “Yes” and “No”.
“YES” because a good-looking guy is indeed attractive to her, otherwise how would a physical or sexual connection prevail between the two of you?
“NO” because even a handsome man may not appear so if he lacks self-esteem and confidence. If he’s ever whining about his short neck, dull eyes, etc, etc, it won’t matter if he were a replica of Brad Pitt, all she will notice are the flaws that he so vehemently and repeatedly points out.
What a pleasure it would be if you knew how to make a girl fall in love madly… Like a master key, you would probably try to unlock any door you came across and thus make any girl fall in love with you.
Selling what you wouldn’t buy…
What if you came across a salesperson who asked you to sample a wine, and in the same breath, proclaim that they would never buy such cheap wine…A wrong move, a pitch gone bad.
Why, if not how, on earth would a girl fall madly in love with you if the whole world just despised you beyond the norm? She’s neither dumb nor blind and she will definitely ask herself (and maybe even inquire around) what is wrong with you.
Love her needlessly
This is actually what real love is, loving without expecting anything in return, giving without the expectation of getting.
Nowadays, women are convinced that men always want something, and unfortunately often “in the sack”…
And so if you could surpass her expectations and speculations, and prove to her that you’re the one-in-a-million she’s been dreaming of, she will definitely fall in love madly.
